This one begins with my intentions to post it in a contest at the "Indiblogger" and to win return tickets to London. The best will get to fly that extra miles with his/her love.
But aaaaaaaah!!, I could not launch the post in the competition area due to my inadequacy in technical know how. Nevertheless, I will post what I wanted to post even if it does not fetch me a competition participant.
This is about going those miles with your love, the travelling moments, to find out more about your chromosome of dependency on each other, and to explore that the chromosome is made of trust-DNA. Being brought up watching Bollywood movies, we know that great things happen when you travel, especially at the airports, when the aircraft is on the verge of take-off. Such was the impact of those non-orgasmic climax scenes, that similar situation occurred to me involving the air travel.
Why do people go on Honey Moon? , Why do they want to travel with each other? Why do people feel they are getting more close when they travel?
As the price of insecurity has faced deflation throughout human history, people tend to think more about themselves rather than the other. And as it is not our basic character, we suffer the sin for being sinusoidal. However when we travel, we have to move out from our self bubbles, to create an invisible sphere of love, which will replicate the feeling of a home!!, we care for the other, the way we want ourselves to be treated. And hence the ultimate feel good.
He he..that's all from a wanna be psychologist. When I saw the tag line of "going further to get closer", I got tempted, the incident that happened with me can exactly be described with these words and thus I had to write.
It was the month of May, no mercy was there for getting closer to Suryadev, parallely we were also getting closer as our marriage was finalised. The "getting closer" thing was far from being real as there was a continuous heat from my idiotic tension of financial unpreparedness. Anxiety always follows a steep upward curve, that was exactly the same for me, soon it was overflowing and started to effect her. She stood strong in this most sensitive phase of her life, but was falling apart from inside, it all came to the fore while she left Mumbai and visited her parents to Kolkata. My anxiety was the child of inexperience but when it came back to me, it came with every little mistake it could find in the way. I never communicated with my inexperience and was unaware of the coming Tsunami of postponing it towards my financial preparedness. Those events had the effect the same way Tsunamis have their effect......
I was devastated !!
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What is the way to escape a Tsunami's effect???
You have to fly before the airport gets effected!!!
I did that, I had traveled the distance to make the things the way love should be. In these situations you can not spare any moment, I asked for emergency leave from the office stating the real reason, I could not afford anything negative right then. Booked air ticket worth 10 grand each, which made me piss out my thinking of finances. I did not disclose this to anybody, kept it as a surprise, and reached my would be in-laws home to give a surprise. It single handedly created a impression that my illusion of financial preparedness is over.
She was happy, though I had to plead a lot for walking together in the beautiful and quaint roads near the Airport. We both approved it as our moment, and forgot what has happened in the past few months. I was happy to see her the way she is, always talking about what we will do together, where we will go, what she will wear :D. I was only listening to her and holding her hand so tightly that there was enough sweat to declare it as a lake for the ants. Some huge international carriers were flying over our head as we sat down at a nearby field and she said someday we will be flying in these, I smiled to convince her the surety. We gave that "all I want is to love you" look to each other as I thanked the flying carrier for letting me escape the Tsunami. That was my incident of "going further" and The next picture taken in our honeymoon will speak more about getting closer..
That made me learn something, and I will say it in short for you..
" When you have became someone's Fiance, never think of your finances!!"
Here is the ad from British airways explaining their beautiful tagline'... (http://bit.ly/1epU8Uj)
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